The Lacy Lady's List is the same List as the Strong Woman's List by L.A. Artis

People seem to believe that a woman is either strong or soft; feminine or feisty when in truth a REAL woman is both.

1.   We like having doors opened for us even though we know we totally capable of opening them ourselves.

2.  We are leading thinkers and thinking leaders but we love stepping back and letting a godly, gifted and great man take lead.

3.  We are leaders.  A woman wants to take her man hand by the hand and lead him and if he is wise, he will let go of her hand and but will continue to follow her for it is then that he gets to see her as no one else in the world does.  Brothers follow the leader...

4.  We are attracted by what we see of you and in you and we are attracted by the sweet words we hear you say but we are forever attached by how we are treated.

5.   When we are loved and loved right, we will clear a field to help you build a dream. 

6.   A man that thinks, dresses well, prays, communicates, respects and honors us, his family, friends, and himself will always have our respect, loyalty, prayers, love, passion, admiration and full attention.

7.   Brothers, you don't have to be rich, but you do have to go to work.

8.   Romance is the dance of our souls.  It is the key to our hearts.

9.   A man that truly loves God, prays and believes?  We will follow him and walk with him whereever he may go.

10. A man that gives honest compliments &, constructive caring criticism is a friend to our esteem and destiny.

11. A real lady knows when to hang up her Wonder Woman cape and let her man handle it.

12. A strong woman is a lacy lady and a lacy lady is a strong woman.  Her lace gives her strength.  Her strength makes her very feminine.  They are not mutually exclusive unless THAT WOMAN makes them so.  The only person who can stop a beautiful woman from being strong is herself.  People can hurt her.   They can abuse her.  They can let her down but as long as she believes in herself, her gifts, her talents, her abilities, her God-given beauty and strength - NO ONE CAN EVER TAKE THAT AWAY FROM HER!

13. A real woman knows that a beautiful mind on a beautiful woman is irresistable to a man with a brain!  :-)

14.  A praying woman is a powerful woman.  She is powerful in every way imaginable.  She has the power of God.  She has the power of the Word of God.  She has the power of her brilliant mind.  She has the power of her femininity.  She has the power of her intuition.  She has the power to attract.  She has the power to lead.  She has the power to create.  She has the power to lead.  Shehas the power to make a man better, stronger, wiser, richer and happier than he'd ever be without her - all because she knows who she is, whose she is, what she has, how to use it, when to use it but mostly because she prays to a God who has all of the power!

15.  If we ever say, "We've had enough of you!"  Believe us.

16.  A woman that is sure of herself will keep herself looking beautiful for herself.  The man in her life reap the rich benefits of her self-love.

17.  A strong woman is drawn to a strong man like a moth to a flame.  She is strong enough to use lace to build him, draw him and sustain him  She is strong enough to let the lace in her get his attention.  She will use the lace in her to bind his broken heart.  She will use the strong lace in her to hold him together when the world is tearing him apart.  A strong confident woman knows that the lace in her is strong enough to keep a good man drawn to her and only her forever.

18.  A lacy woman will let the sweetness of herself erase the bitter taste of the world from your mouth and life and a strong woman will hold you close and hold you up when life has beat you down. Her sweet strength and her strong sweetness is more than enough to cause you to return to the battle and then win the war.

19.  Truth be told we want to be celebrated for both our BEAUTY and our MINDS.

20.  We have strong arms but love being in the stronger arms of a man.  Sitting or walking with him while his arm is around our waist is our haven of rest...no matter how strong or successful we are - we long to be in your safe keeping and care.  Resting in your strength is Heaven on earth.  Knowing you are powerful enough to hurt us but you never will makes us give all that we have and are to you without reservation or hesitation.